Should You Kiss the Forehead of a Loved One Who’s Passed? A Tender Tradition Meets Medical Caution

Kissing a loved one goodbye is a sacred gesture across cultures—offering closure, connection, and peace. But a viral video from Dr. Viktor Ivanovik, a Moldovan doctor, sparked debate after he warned that kissing the deceased, especially those who died from infectious diseases, may pose health risks.

While the chance of infection is generally low, experts advise caution if the person had conditions like tuberculosis, hepatitis, severe bacterial infections, or COVID-19. Some pathogens can linger briefly after death, making physical contact potentially unsafe in rare cases.

This isn’t about eliminating grief rituals—it’s about informed choices. Funeral professionals can guide families based on cause of death and help balance emotional needs with safety.

If touch isn’t advised, alternatives like lighting a candle, placing a flower, or writing a farewell letter can be just as meaningful.

In the end, love is not measured by contact alone. A kiss, a song, a quiet moment—each holds power. Grief is deeply personal, and there’s no right way to say goodbye.

As Dr. Ivanovik reminds us, safe farewells can still be heartfelt. With compassion and care, even a distant goodbye can carry the warmth of a final touch.